I used to take pride in keeping my distance..!

I used to take pride in keeping my distance and protect the walls I had built to sustain it only later did I understand that in doing so, I was not only separating myself from what I did not desire, but also making it nearly impossible for what I actually wanted to make its way to me.. they say that we are our own worst enemy, this, I know to be true; I guess sometimes, we need to be shown how to believe in ourselves, by first feeling the weight of the value somebody else places on us, before we can learn to believe we deserve the same from ourselves... strive to find new walls to break down, keep searching for new ways of thinking feeling and being to replace them with and you will never regret all the languages of self-love it teaches you how to speak...❤